Thursday, 21 July 2011

When is it time to say Goodbye?

When is it the right time to say goodbye?
Is it time to say goodbye when, your friend makes you feel like a sack of shit for the 10th time this year and it's only the beginning of March?
Is it time to say goodbye when, your partner comes home drunk and pisses the bed, again but not before he rapes you, again?
Is it the time to say goodbye when your manager reminds you of that promotion that is just around that elusive corner as he dumps a pile of files on your desk at 4pm on a Friday evening?
Is it time to say goodbye when, you are spending more time fighting for a friendship than time spent been a friend?

How do you know when enough is enough and when to start singing your Swan Song?

Is it time to say goodbye when, your 14yr old has stolen money from your wallet for the umpteenth time?
Is it time to say goodbye when, your 17yr old  has broken into your home, stolen your valuables and credit cards?
Only you know when it is time to say goodbye, when a person or situation has gotten to the point of such immense pain or is so unendurable that the pain and the loss of saying goodbye is less than the pain of remaining.
Maybe you will say goodbye for good or perhaps you will say goodbye temporarily whilst you refresh your mind and soul and gather strength to go back and say hello?

When is your right time to say goodbye?